What a waste of your time! Of course they do! Would you ask a child what their wishes and feelings were about going to school, or the dentist, or doing their homework, or having a bath?! Justice Pauffley exposed the secret clandestine deals going on between Social workers and judges back in It is Government misconduct.
So why are they? You can report it to the Police.
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It is misconduct in a Public Office. It can carry life imprisonment. She stop me seeing my boys and now she wants four times the amount of maintenance that I had to pay when we had shared custody together. Ian , I am in exactly the same position. My children are being abused by their mother and they will work it out when they get older. But it is too late then, you can never get the time back, She has sucked the joy out of being with my son as much as possible, i can never retrieve it.
Fight for your children as parental alienation must be stopped and not be give lip service by Cafcass management who fail to punish offending officers you show bias to mothers! On the other hand, I am a mother who has fought.. A manner you would think, parent of the year..
All still now when raises its reoccurring issues.. This has caused my child so much damage.
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The law needs to change and put these children first not there results. Most Cafcass officers are simply incompetant and useless and are protected by poor management who need replacing as they all promote gender bias and false reports …disgraceful and a failure to all children!! Women who have been abused rarely have the evidence they need to disprove false accusations of PAS and to prove abuse by their abuser.
PAS can take away the voice of victims and allows further abuse. Sarah, labelling any discord in a relationship as abuse is absurd, and using that discord to alienate a child from a loving father is massively damaging and abusive to both child and father. Women often alienate a father out of spite and the desire to start a new life with a new man.
The domestic abuse card is all too often used to attract benefits such as legal aid, occupation of the family home, better financial settlements and, of course, custody of the children which in turn attracts further financial benefits. It is now endemic in UK family law. Totally agree. I think there are more false accusations of child abuse and neglect and complaining about ex fella by the women by far then false accusations of PAS against them by their ex fellas.
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I do think there is an element of both sides using the children as pawns sometimes though and that is not good. Especially with the status quo, grab the children for the money approach encouraged by the law we have. Do I think men are exempt from guilt, no, you have a point there. I think you need to acknowledge that women can be wrong also. I respond as a child who was neglected by both parents who were fighting a lot and probably should have gone into care or at least had a social worker asigned.
I can give the examples of injuries incurred through the neglect, physical and emotional, so appreciate your point that men as well as women can inadvertantly be harming their children. I resent bitterly though the love that parent show of not wanting to harm their children being seen as weakness by lawyers and the other side. The whole, what are you going to do about it? Tell it to the Judge? Talk to the hand stuff. Its even worse in the states. For example, walking out of a toxic atmosphere then losing the house in US law , similar in this country.
Id shorten my post to saying mud slinging hoping something will stick should be reduced as its not good for the children I agree with you on that, men and women are guilty of it, women are worse in this jurisdiction though. Sadly this goes back to kramer vs kramer and probably even the judgement of solomon, where the person doing the right thing for the children gets stitched up.
Men who have been abused rarely have the evidence they need to disprove false accusations of DV and to prove abuse by their abuser. False allegations of DV can take away the voice of victims and allows further abuse.
I believe that when women and children are being abused by men that is wrong. I also believe that when men and children are being abused by women that is equally wrong. Abuse is wrong regardless what gender the abuser is. Cafcass has a way of shifting the blame on to others. Their appointed Guardians hardly ever meet the children with their families. They do not work with families they work with children services.
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They are the cause of alienating children from families. Prior to child displacement and adoption was less then a few hundred a year. Since the formation of Cafcass in that figure has risen to on average 90 cases a day. The parents are denied fair representation. The trial will be held in a secret court and the parents are silenced with threats of imprisonment. However a burglar who does exactly the same thing. Takes without consent will get a fair trial in an open court and will have his freedom back.
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A parent loses forever. I know. Cafcass did it to me. I totally agree with you, Peter. In Mexico and Brazil, Parental Alienation is a serious criminal offence. The bad parent loses the custody straight away. Also, they can be in prison for up to 15 years.
At last someone who can make a difference has had the guts and sense to make this comment.
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There may be many reasons for this, hatred toward the former partner, an inability to share the childs life with the other parent rooted in some form of Borderline personality disorder trait, the fear of loss of control over the childs future or and far more fundamentally fear of giving equal parenting time thus loosing the ability to demand Cash from the other parent via Maintenance payments driven from the CMS.
Great comment Russell.
It is indeed basic psychology. I am willing to bet that PA has been going on since man first jumped out of a tree onto the Savannah!
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This is not complicated. It is not difficult. Then I figured — heh — this is easy peasy…why are all of these intelligent, degree-level-educated people not getting it…Of course the answer is not that they are stupid. It is that they are cowardly…. My wife keeps making accusations, i was arrested and not charged on 2 previous occasions and was released without charge by the police and asked me to stay at friends house.
On being released police officers visited 1 hour later leaving court papers to attend court. I was then prosecuted in civil court gor a DVPO but in magistrates and was found guilty without legal representation as no time to get a solicitor weekend , attended court on monday morning. I was found guilty, the victim was not present so no cross examination, found guilty on just her false statement.
In court soon i did not even touch her.